Can you hold it !!

There is a old saying that "The only Constant Thing in this world is Change". The two Ws - Wind and Water are natural source of our existence. For me they also attributes to life. Wind never remain at single point nor does water. And if they do, it loose out its natural power.

Can you hold lions or elephants. I am sure, your ready answer will be yup. But I cant take them as lions or as an elephant anymore if they live in cage. Can you hold time !! Can you hold joy !! Can you hold ideas !!

The question is of relevance not of to holding. Every thing in this universe has its its own purpose at its own time, not before and not after. Would joint family system will work in this new pace, multi dimensional age, no doubt it greatly hold its value and precognition in past but the real question is can you hold it now !! There you are .....

My question is why anyone would life to hold anything. If I am holding it then its the biggest injustice i am doing to myself. There is nothing that is only right or only wrong, there is nothing which is only black or only white. Everything is in its context. I study marketing and I know that hit products are only that which sells, irrespective of whether its milk or alcohol.

Apart from context, external factors including social, governmental or political also counts. And in the place where everything keeps changing, how can one be rigid or hold to any single thing. Trends, purchasing power, belief everything is changing.

Therefor, I strongly suggests that before circumstances changes, before your boyfriend will dump you, you dump him. Before, your children trash you, you trash them. Before your employer sack you, you sack them. Before your best friend turn her back, you move on to new path. Just because you can't hold them, you can't hold circumstances, you can't hold environment, you can't hold the destiny. It will be, what its supposed to be.